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The need for male milking is one of the big questions about male chastity and orgasm denial - meaning, is it necessary or desirable to drain the prostate by means other than full orgasm to maintain the man's health?
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Male Milking - The Myth
The myth of male milking is it has to be done once a month Or Else.
And if you read virtually any blog or forum this is the advice you'll see.
But the fact of the matter is there is no compelling medical evidence I have been able to find to suggest a man's prostate has to be milked at all, never mind once 센즈카지노 a month.
The available research I've been able to find is not convincing either way - some studies show a benefit to regular prostate emptying; some show the opposite.
It seems like this myth has been promulgated simply because it's what "everyone knows" and so it is continually repeated and reinforced.
That said, prostate milking does no harm, may have some health benefits, and is both pleasurable and frustrating for the man (which makes it worth doing!).
So here are three ways to do it.
External Male Milking
You can do this by having your man on all fours and getting him into a highly excited state, and then gently stroking and massaging his well-lubricated perineum with your fingers.
This is the soft spot between his anus and the rearmost part of his scrotum.
You don't need much pressure here for this and you can be sure your man will be moaning, groaning, and begging for release.
He's almost guaranteed to start pushing back at you because he wants to feel more pressure and increase the pleasure he's feeling. If this is something you want to deprive him of (as I do with my husband), whenever he pushes back, stop stimulating him until he relaxes. You don't have to say anything, but you do need to be consistent with your actions. You're effectively training him it's NOT something you're doing for his enjoyment or pleasure.
When it comes it feels (to him) a little like urinating.
It effectively empties his prostate but does not give him the pleasure of an orgasm.
This is the method I mostly use for milking my own husband, every couple of months.
Internal Male Milking
For internal male milking you massage the prostate itself through the walls of the rectum, using your finger or a dedicated massaging device like the Aneros.
This clearly means you have you stick something in there!
As with any kind of anal play lots of lube is an absolute must and the rule is always to go slowly and be gentle.
Some women prefer to milk their men in this way because of the extra humiliation it causes the poor man. It's even possible to milk him in this way with a strapon, so he's even more humiliated.
As with external prostate milking, this does not give your man the pleasure of orgasm, but does leave him feeling frustrated.
Ruined Orgasm
And finally, if you can't be bothered with the milking (it all does take time and effort), then a ruined orgasm is an effective way to empty his prostate.
All you need to do is get him to the point where his orgasm has actually started, and then STOP all stimulation.
He'll hate it, believe me, because it's so frustrating for him.
You may wish to secure his hands before you do this, because if you don't, then he WILL touch himself to "finish off", I guarantee.
It's so frustrating, he won't be able NOT to.
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